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Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Sad News

Steven Curtis Chapman's youngest daughter, Maria, was killed today when struck by a car driven by her teenage brother in their own driveway. Maria is the Chapman's 6th. child and their 3rd child adopted from China. Steven and his wife have been such incredible supporters and leaders in the international adoption community. The article about Maria's tragic death can be found at:

http://www.tennessean.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080521/TUNEIN/80521174/1005/ENTERTAINMENT

Chapman family - you are in our thoughts and prayers. What a difficult, tragic experience. Our hearts are carrying your burden and we will keep you lifted up to Jesus. May He comfort you in this time of deepest grieving. Maria was BEAUTIFUL! And your family has been such a beacon to the church - a call to rise to the occasion and be what Jesus calls us to be - lovers of orphans and adoption. So many families are blessed by adoption because of your willingness to draw us in to your story - God's story. Maria will continue to be an inspiration for so many more!

Also in need of urgent prayer - It is becoming more and more evident that the enemy is attacking international adoption globally - SIGNIFICANTLY! As many of you who followed our journey to Libby know, China has been slowing down their adoption program to almost nil over the last several years. China - having been the biggest international adoption program for quite some time - was the one country that allowed adoption agencies the financial capacity to keep their doors open to other international programs. The enemy was/is specifically slowing down China because it affects ALL international adoption agencies and programs. Adoption agencies across the country are closing because China's program is too slow to keep enough funding for agencies to continue.

AWAA (our agency) is having it's own share of troubles in light of China's slow down. But they are doing everything they can to cut back costs and make it work. Still, AWAA is dependent upon our prayers and the work of God.

Ethiopia is currently experiencing severe electricity outages. These outages are causing problems in communications and court dates that affect those adopting from (or being adopted from) Ethiopia. When this information was made known to me I immediately thought of something my friends, Larry and Terry Singletary, shared with me. Larry and Terry were missionaries to the unreached people group called the Karamajong in northern Uganda. They served there for 10 years - enough time to recognize some consistent patterns of the enemy. Every time they were on the verge of a spiritual breakthrough the enemy would begin upping the battle by taking away their ability to communicate with the outside world. Phones, Internet, satellite radios/phones and electricity would come to a halt. I believe this is what is happening in Ethiopia. You see, Ethiopia is the only international adoption program that's on a significant rise. It has the potential of being a "China" for international adoption agencies. So it makes sense that this is where the enemy would target the next stage of battle.

What I ask is for you to PRAY - not specifically for our future daughter (although she is certainly affected by this situation) - but for international adoption world wide. The estimated number of orphans in Ethiopia alone in 2005 is somewhere between 4 and 6 million. Can you imagine? And that was 3 years ago. The numbers continue to rise. What a grip the enemy has. But we have a chance to go to battle for them; first in prayer!!! Everything else is in vain without prayer. Second; by supporting international adoption and international adoption agencies/organizations (particularly those who understand adoption to be the heart of God) - in word AND DEED! (GIVE FINANCIALLY OR ADOPT!).

I will start a resource list on this blog soon - ways you can get involved. But for now - My first suggestion is to give directly to America World as I know their hearts, their hard work and their love for rescuing orphans. My second suggestion is to visit sites that already list reputable resources. For example - Tom Davis, the author of "Fields of the Fatherless" and "Red Letters" has many resources (including his own organization) listed on his site and even in his books.

But let me end with this: PRAY!!! Pray for the Chapman family who is so in the forefront of the international adoption cause that, I believe, the enemy targeted him and his family today. They will need so much prayer during this time. Prayer for protection of their hearts and minds as they struggle through the most intense grief possible.
And PRAY some more!!! - Picture your own children at the age of 2 or 5 or 10 walking around in complete poverty with no parent or family member other than siblings younger than themselves that they are now responsible for; no food, no bath, no bed. No clean water, no shelter from the rain, no love. Only dirt, pain, loneliness, malnutrition and hopelessness. Let that picture sink deep into your heart and be affected by it - enough to DO SOMETHING about it for the MILLIONS of orphans in this world. If we, as Christians, do not pray more AND do more there is something terribly wrong with our hearts.

9 comments:

David Guion said...

Dear Cindy,

My heart just aches as I read your post this morning. Oh Lord, please have mercy on Steven, Mary Beth and their children in this tragic moment.

We will continue to pray.

As our friend, Mike Curry says, "Satan hates the Light!"

David, Kimber and Carly Guion

one24worship.com

Jenn said...

AMEN!

Anonymous said...

There are 44 millions world wide 6 million in America

Janee said...

Cindy, what a much-needed post and a challenge to those of us who do have His heart for those orphans world-wide. I join you in your prayers for the Chapman family and for the countries experiencing Satan's attack in regards to the adoption program and those factors that affect it. Praying for Aria- that she will be protected from all struggle and difficulty- physically, emotionally, spiritually. Praying also for you, Billy, and Libby as you continue your journey.

the Steiger's said...

We are praying. Thank so for sharing all this with us. The enemy is not happy right now. Too much saddness going around.
LEnka

Holly said...

So glad to pray. Going on my knees right now for this issue--I had no idea about how the enemy targets in this way. Good to know. Praying for the Chapmans. I have been crying on and off all day in pain for them.

Much love to you and for your fam, Cindy!
holly

Third Mom said...

I'm an adoptive mom, my children are both Korean and are now teens. My heart, too, goes out to the Chapmans; I cannot imagine the depth of their grief.

Your post came up on a my google alert for international adoption news and blogs, so this is the first time I have read here, and apologize for not knowing the background of this post.

I ask this question with respect: Who is "the enemy?" I'm not sure if you mean Satan or someone or something else, and would like to understand.

Thank you very much, and again I apologize but am truly curious.

Cristie said...

Dearest Anonymous ...

I want to make a correction to your comment left on the Foote blog. There are a 143 MILLION orphans in the world, not 44. While I am not sure of your intent in showing the number of orphans in America vs other areas, I do believe you may be a little off on the total number of orphans world wide. Did you know?

Every 15 SECONDS, another child becomes an AIDS orphan in Africa

Every DAY 5,760 more children become orphans

Every YEAR 2,102,400 more children become orphans (in Africa alone)

143,000,0002 Orphans in the world today spend an average of 10 years3 in an orphanage or foster home

Approximately 250,000 children are adopted annually, but...

Every YEAR 14,050,000 children still grow up as orphans and AGE OUT4 of the system

Every DAY 38,493 children AGE OUT - no longer qualify as "adoptable"

Every 2.2 SECONDS, another orphan child AGES OUT with no family to belong to and no place to call home

In Ukraine and Russia 10% -15% of children who age out of an orphanage commit suicide before age 18. 60% of the girls are lured into prostitution. 70% of the boys become hardened criminals.
Many of these children accept job offers that ultimately result in their being sold as slaves. Millions of girls are sex slaves today, simply because they were unfortunate enough to grow up as orphans.

While I too would love to see EVERY child in the world find a forever home, the crisis spands the globe! For Cindy and for many, international adoption is the pulse of her existence ... the Lord called her there - it's her God given mandate! The amazing thing is that the Lord gives us all a different mission. Wouldn't it be sad if he didn't ... how could he go and accomplish it all without giving us all a different goal.
I am not sure if I misread your intent on the message but I know that when Cindy speaks of the crisis in Africa it is because the Lord gave her heart a pulse and a beat specific for that place. For me, I am passionate about China ... my daughter would still be there had the Lord not given me the mandate to GO and bring her HOME!
I pray that he has given you the mandate to change the look of domestic adoption. I pray he has given you a mandate to advocate for the children right here in our midst! Even one voice can make the difference. Today, Cindy is being the voice for Ethiopia! Tomorrow, the Lord may tell her to advocate for an entirely different area. In the end, the final result and the hope is to have EVERY child hear the name of Jesus, accept his truth and know his salvation. While yes, we would LOVE to have every child find a forever home .. the ultimate goal is that they find THE forever home! The Lord can't accomplish that task if we don't obey what he says .. clearly .. in James 1:27 to look after the orphans and widows in their distress!
Many blessings my friend!

Candice of 'The Beautiful Mess' said...

Cindy-

I've been a silent follower of your blog because of our shared interest in adopting...I'll be praying.