So, although I wrote the last post (a few hours ago) with complete confidence in God's timing - I still wrote it with sadness too - certainly not wanting to have to wait any longer. But then I received an encouraging phone call from another ET family and found out that more referrals came today and 2 of them were from the girl line!!! The Jones family received a referral for a baby girl and the VanDruff family received a referral for a 3 year old girl and a 7 year old boy!!!
I also discovered that several of the families on my "list" that I keep posting are requesting either a boy or a girl - which usually means they'll receive a boy - so as far as families requesting only an infant girl is concerned we are a little higher up the list than I realized - like maybe around number 9 or 10 maybe...
I'm not sure how to balance this encouragement with not setting myself up with expectations, but I'm trying. I am encouraged but I still realize anything is possible - faster or slower.
Here's the reconfigured list. If you count only the "girls only" families - then we're number 10!
1. (1) Rothermund – girl request only – dte 3/19/08
2. (2) Eckhardt – girl only – dte 3/28/08
3. (3) Heinrichs – girl only – dte 3/28/08
4. (4) Keiderling – girl only – dte 4/18/08
5. Gillman – EITHER – dte 4/18/08
6. Fallgatter – EITHER – dte 4/25/08
7. Mullins – EITHER – dte 4/25/08
8. Rogers – EITHER – dte 4/28/08
9. Bayly – EITHER – dte 5/2/08
10. Stackler – EITHER – 5/2/08
11. Precopia – EITHER – 5/2/08
12. (5) Taylor – girl only – 5/2/08
13. (6) Delfosse – girl only – 5/9/08
14. (7) Pickard – girl only – 5/9/08
15. Bartley – EITHER – 5/30/08
16. (8) Gagnon – girl only – 5/30/08
17. Bushre – EITHER – 5/30/08
18. (9) Portilla -girl only-6/13/08
19. (10) Foote - THAT'S US!!!! 6/13/08 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
20. Redd - girl only - 6/13/08
21. Kerby- girl only - 6/13/08
Goodnight!
Cindy
4 comments:
Agh... THE WAIT. I wish I had something oh-so-wise to say. I don't! So I'll go to bed and pray for you.
It's hard.(There I go being a genius and stating the obvious!)
Prayerfully,
Jen
that away for looking at the positive side of this process. i know that i try to factor up what our timeline is and when i focus on it, i'm usually let down.
just knowing that it is in God's hands and timing is all we need.
we are with a different agency and are on both sibling and girl lists. hope we get to the top some time this year.
Cindy-your story has been such an encouragement to our adoption and to many others I am sure!! We just got our referral today, thought it might cheer you up during your wait for you to know how much God is using you to encourage others.
Kelli
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As I was praying this morning, God brought Aria to mind and I prayed for her...for you three, as you wait. Perhaps this is your girl's birthday. It may be sooner than you think. Continuing in prayer for you!
Love,
Holly
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